Big Spoon v. Little Spoon

Big Spoon is a lot of effort. My arm starts aching after a short while. It's not that comfortable for extended periods of time. Little spoon, well, unless you don't like to be touched, which in this case shouldn't be the case if its your bf/gf, is the easiest job in the world. Back to big spoon, where does the other arm go? I mean, seriously, there really isn't a place for that arm, unless you want it to fall asleep. To Be Continued...